“I love America more than any other country in this world, and, exactly for this reason, I insist on the right to criticize her perpetually.”–James Baldwin

American democracy is getting it wrong. It represents corporations and highest bidders, ignores the will of the people. I’m writing a series of Federalist Papers to share how I hope we can shift things to create the world of our dreams.

This is the way I choose to see my own participation in economy in order to make change in the world.

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The three main resources all of us have available to us are our time, treasure and talent.

Much like our beloved mushroom friends function as an underground network of mycelium, I try to move my resources and nutrients very intentionally between places that matter to me.

The mushrooms, by the way, are the fruit of the mycelium, and are typically less than 20% of the overall mycelium. It’s incredible the way they communicate with one another and act as a conduit of nutrients and information between trees!

I really think mushrooms are teachers for us showing us the way we can heal the planet from extracting corporate oligarchs!

When I spend money I prioritize first putting money in the hands of another person I know, I’m in community with or that I value. 

I do this because the “nutrients” from the money I use are far more impactful the more locally I can spend the money. 

I still consider money “local” if it’s within a community I’m part of, even if that community is worldwide as many of my communities are in these internet Age of Aquarius times! 

When a community gathers around common values this as a mindful way to spend money. Plus, I want my communities to thrive and when I spend money with vendors within the community I’m voting for them to win. 

In some ways intra community spending feels like we pass “the same $20” around but it’s actually pretty powerful and I hope it will eventually be the “same $1,000” we pass around.

My second priority is putting the money in the hands of another individual or family. It feels great that the money I spend at a family owned restaurant is going right to keeping the lights on at the house of the family who owns it. 

Or having a hair dresser who is independent versus working for a big corporation where they are just getting paid hourly.

I spend with cash when I am able because credit card processing is expensive for small businesses and puts some of the transaction money into the hands of corporations. No thanks!

I then prioritize local worker-owned businesses (some of these are not family owned). In Port Townsend we have a worker-owned food co-op and I do 75% of my grocery shopping there. The other 25% is at a local family owned franchise of Grocery Outlet (wow do I love discount snacks).

I learned that the cure for our current “greedflation” we are experiencing with groceries is prioritizing spending grocery money with stores that are on the same supply chain as Grocery Outlet, Dollar Stores, Trader Joe’s, etc… We speak to corporations with our money and when we prioritize spending with the companies that are not price gauging it’s very loud to them!

Handing money to a friend or an artist just FEELS good, too. The energetic exchange is so much better than shopping at Walmart (which I never shop at). Remember that liking posts, sharing posts, amplifying your favorite artists and creators is a form of currency.

Next I’m going to prioritize shopping at a privately held corporation. (You’d need to do some research to figure out whether a company is traded on a stock market or is privately held, but it’s pretty easy to figure out.) I also take a look at the values that the corporation walks out.

For example, I’ve never eating at chik-fil-a because they support gay hating initiatives that really don’t align with their stated values. But they are privately held and will continue to be. (I truly don’t understand Christian hegemony that doesn’t align with the teachings of Jesus the Christ but that’s a different article for a different day!)

Why private companies? Because I don’t want to make faceless shareholders wealthy with my money. The more we divest from big corporations the more power our money has. The more we empower people in our communities with our money the better we support the folks we want to win!

I also think about hedge fund bros making millions off of moving money around. Money is really just an idea (read the Soul of Money–life changing).

If I had $20 to spend on a meal out I’d rather give that money to a mom and pop mexican place than Chipotle (owned in part by McDonald’s corporation, currently subject to boycott).

Before I’ll shop at Amazon I’ll shop at a big box store that has a local store that employs my neighbors. The goal is to keep the money circulating locally as much as possible. 

Amazon, by the way, is not a great place for their workers, not actually creating happiness or smiles even though they have the resources to do it! (I kind of see the vans they have as Death Eaters with their smoke steaming around my neighborhood a la Harry Potter movies). 

I have a friend who prioritizes shopping from Amazon online because they are the only company using electric vehicles around here, which is a fair point. Everyone has different values that matter to them!

I also post links to Amazon from time to time on my blog (and include a link in every blog post so if you ARE shopping from Amazon I get a 3% commission at no cost to you that cuts into Bezos’ profits). I do this because it’s a great way for me to not have to give cash to Amazon when I do because they pay me in gift cards. I would much rather you support an indie bookseller but if you’re gonna use Amazon, I appreciate the circulation of energy coming my way!

A reminder to tip lavishly in cash whenever you are able to and always when receiving a service not from the owner of the business!

You can apply the same kind of prioritization to your time (which is also your attention). There’s a reason all these apps and streaming services are vying for your attention. It’s a commodity to them! 

Your talent are the things you’re good at. Consider who you could be helping with what you’re good at. Something that is very simple to you is very meaningful to someone else!

We are systematically disempowered in our society. Whenever I feel bad about myself I consider “who profits off my self loathing” and choose new thoughts.

We think we can’t fix the big problems ourselves so we don’t do these small things that actually help.

The big changes that come from below are because lots of people are making little decisions to help a bigger issue. Most people just give up rather than try, but we make big changes by each of us being willing to be a little uncomfortable or inconvenienced to make a difference.

McDonalds has seen a huge decline in their profits–young people are really mobilizing against genocide!

The current boycott of Starbucks has reduced their company’s net worth by $4 Billion and counting. That’s a bunch of people deciding collectively to simply change their coffee shop. Small decisions by a lot of people make a huge impact.

This soap box moment isn’t to say you have to do things my way or you’re a bad person. I don’t think that at all–I believe everyone is doing the best they can with the tools they have at the time. My point in this article is to help you understand the way I think about resources in hopes that you will take what you like and leave the rest.

I try to be a river not a reservoir in life and get intentional about where I flow my resources. Yeah, it’s more of a hassle to figure out where to get my audiobooks since Amazon gobbled up audible. It’s more of a hassle to shop locally than buy from Bezos. But I want to make a difference in my tiny corner of the world, and support my communities. That matters more to me than a small inconvenience.

Further reading: What if Tipping Revolutionized the World?

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Follow Focused on Infinity on Instagram, and Patreon for further tips on prepping and mobilizing in these times. I’m really appreciating Logan’s leadership and empowerment in these continually unprecedented times.

P.S. This post is an adaptation of an article published in issue 2 of the Goddess Quarterly, a zine for Goddesses who heal with plant medicine.


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It’s on Netflix!

There are times when our life circumstances end up with us hanging out with people who have very different views about the world.

I think going into family gatherings with a list of compromise, fairly neutral media to screen together is a good idea. (My family loved to go to the movies together on visits.)*

I find it easiest to deal with folks like that to focus on what we have in common. I think this documentary could create some family harmony for potentially up to 1 hour and 47 minutes.

Okay so first of all a lot of people love Tanya Tucker across the political spectrum. Brandi Marie Carlile herself says we (meaning everyone) are more alike than we are different.

A return story (don’t call it a comeback) is heart warming. Tanya is SO. VULNERABLE. Relatable! It’s hard to have been knocked on your ass and made mistakes and she has been so famous since she was a lil nugget 13 year old.

Pause and remember HOW YOUNG thirteen is!?

She chose Delta Dawn, by the way, as a nugget. That’s so boss.

Back in the day when the Gen X/Boomers/etc were younger there was way less media so Tanya being so famous so long ago means your older family members and people you know are likely to know Tanya and have some level of affection for her. Suggest this movie!

I cried 20 minutes into the movie and kept crying many more times. I can feal that vulnerability and dear lord, how relatable to take creative risks later in life.

I am a 2023 Brandi Carlile fan and the more I know her the more I like her.

Watching her produce someone she admired very much was brilliant! She is so tender and tough and has a clear vision. Brandi has Mercury in Cancer and the way she encourages Tanya is in this nurturing mommy boss very Cancer way. Tanya gets nervous about a minor part in the final mix and wants to change something, Brandi explains calmly what that might take away from the project and encourages Tanya just to take the vulnerability risk!

In my first post about Brandi I lamented we (meaning the world wide web) do not know her birth time because I, as a total astrology nerd, want to understand her rising sign! Based on watching her produce an album for another artist, I now think that Brandi either has a Cancer rising with that Mercury in Cancer on the ascendant, OR (more likely) she is a Virgo or Gemini rising, thus the Mercury in Cancer is her chart ruler. Watching how she produces and interacts with her fans (I’m a member of the Bramily now that happened very fast) I see how she is such a consummate nurturing creator, storyteller and captain of the ship.

The album they make on the documentary, While I’m Livin’, is absolutely fantastic!! A great listen! Playing cards with the family? Listen to Tanya’s two recent albums!

The song Bring My Flowers Now is so moving and I gasped when I realized the documentary was showing us the moment Tanya speaks those words as a song idea and Brandi takes up the pen and makes it happen.

It might be my favorite song ever. Once you realize how frequently your friends become ancestors you want to be giving flowers while you’re alive. At least I do. I’ve learned all too well there will be a time you can’t hug someone you love or admire and I want as many hugs and heart connections as I can before I depart this plane. (And I still want those heart connections then, too. But the hugs are an earthside thing!)

OMG the things Tanya says! She is my favorite kind of person–brutally honest. Brandi asks her about Miranda Lambert and she says “Oh she’s my pick of the litter!”

Wow. Like that’s really a compliment coming from Tanya and you can tell by the tone of her voice but it’s so specific.

Anyway, I meant to post this documentary / Netflix recommendation during the holidays back when I posted about ways to handle your tough family conversations and I think this review and that survival guide are a good pair.

P.S. Just cuz you’re visiting family or friends or community doesn’t mean you need to stay with them. Consider the mental health benefits of (if you can) renting a place with a bathtub for a salt bath and some meditation/spiritual hygiene time. Or taking up a friend on their alternate place to stay!

(When I was easing out of no contact with my mom I stayed across the Bay from her in the redwoods with my bestie and drove an hour to visit with her when I needed to visit. Or with my friends in SF who had a really nice tub and cozy guest bed!)

If you can’t get a separate place advocate for your self care time and space! Taking a walk and putting your feet in the grass. There are sometimes hotels with hospital discounts if you’re visiting someone in a hospital!

*I have a BIG BOUNDARY about having the TV news on no matter what the genre of the mass media. It’s not how I want my ear space occupied. If my Grandmother were alive now we would have intentional old movies playing 24/7 because she used to play the news 24/7 very loud in her house to ease her anxiety. I would want to be a partner with her to ease her anxiety with noise it would just need to be something I found soothing, too.

Grandmother had a huge bath tub in her guest suite and I kept epsom salts there for my visits. I miss her hugs and getting to stay with her in Palm Springs! I would have shown her this Tanya Brandi documentary after showing her how to use Netflix on a streaming device for the infinite time.

Me and my beloved Grandmother Anise on the day she was diagnosed with lung cancer. She loved getting orchids and I would pick one up from Trader Joe’s for her every time I visited long before the diagnosis. P.S. Any location for Sherman’s Deli in the Palm Springs and surrounding area is worth a visit! Grandmother loved taking us there!
Someday I’ll have “Welcome Amethysts” flanking the foyer of my home in Grandmother’s honor. We loved visiting Crystal Fantasy! Felt like a risk to be my full self with my family for a long time but I am glad Grandmother and I share an obsession with astrology and an openness to the metaphysical. Once our ancestors have crossed I bet they are real glad when we choose the metaphysical beliefs that there’s more to life than this!

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For those of you who bravely continue family relationships with people who are hard to be around–I salute you! In episode 154 of my podcast I talked at length about my experience moving across the country and letting that be the reason I didn’t stay intermingled in my family’s dynamics. That episode is a pep talk for anyone not going home for the holidays who needs a pep talk for disappointing people with your choices!

My intention with this piece is to teach anyone who is trepidatious about going to a gathering some of my favorite tools for hard conversations and difficult people. I’ve been working on healing from social anxiety intentionally for nearly five years and I’ve learned a lot about how to release defensiveness and needing to be “right” which helps a lot with harmonizing conversations.

Hi! I’m Bevin! I want to be a good influence on you!

If you go to the holidays with folks you feel like you can fully be yourself around, be accepted, loved, cheered on and cheered up and leave with your belly and emotional cup full–you have found real family and I hope you cherish that!

This is how I want all of my friends & family to feel around me. I know I cannot control how other people experience me, but I can work on my compassion and connection skills to be experienced as more loving.

In my recovery in Al-Anon learned a lot about how much choice I have and I use those choices. I was raised to believe I should care 100% about what other people think about me and 0% about what I think of me. I was raised to contort myself to excel in education and pay for the privilege, get into debilitating debt, have a job and make money and do whatever I needed to make me palatable enough to stay safe.

That’s a recipe for misery and mental illness, addiction and shame. The road to happiness is paved with disappointing people and you’re going to need to disappoint thousands of people along your journey.

If your choice is to attend the gathering you’re nervous about for whatever reason, I encourage you to bring choices along with you.

Choices are freedom–use your freedom! Part of getting socialized in religion, fundamentalism, alcoholic family dynamics, colonialism etc is having folks limit your choices. Beware of anyone who demands unquestioning obedience!

Also learn more about coercive control and manipulation. We have no idea that we have a cop in our heads until we finally learn what that means and how it affects our loving and fun experience of the world. EVICT THE COP IN YOUR BRAIN!

It can feel so hard to make a choice that’s different from other people in the group or room, but usually there’s at least one other person in the room who wants that freedom, too. Model it for them. All of our dreams and desires are on the other end of our comfort zone and sometimes the dream can be simple–I gotta get away from cousin John’s fascist rant.

There are people in this world who thrive on nonsense! You do not have to engage with their nonsense!

And! I believe everyone is worthy of love no matter what–even cousin John. But those people do not get as much access to my time or energy.

Pretty incredible how many folks cannot get through the holidays with their families without being drunk. I stopped drinking 11 years ago cuz I didn’t want to go the road of my alcoholic relatives.

When things get rough for you and you need to shift your energy, here are some possibilities:

1. Take a walk with whoever else wants to go! Our bodies need two hours of movement outside every day. Evolutionarily true! Some of my favorite memories with my cousins at family gatherings over the years are on walks we took after or before a meal. Good conversation and connection.

Sometimes I call consuming cannabis before a meal “getting hungry” and if you have fellow family members who might wanna go outside to get hungry, that’s another great way to connect and shift the energy.

Cannabis can sometimes make your abusive or annoying family more funny, or make our compassion more available. (I argue some terpenes are better than others–pack your high vibe favs for the family event.)

Cannabis can sometimes ease my social anxiety or amplify it. I no longer consume cannabis around people I don’t trust yet. I am brutally honest sometimes when I’m stoned and I like to make sure the folks around me are trustworthy enough to handle my honesty.

2. Take a walk alone! Or take the dog out! Just get outside and let nature align you. I suggest shaking out your body for 30 seconds to relieve and reset your nervous system.

Abraham Hicks teaches this as segment intending. Every time someone walks into a room, or leaves a room, or you change your location all of that is an opportunity to set an intention for a fresh vibe.

3. Intention setting is magic and even taking two seconds to make an intention “I intend this conversation to be harmonious.” “I intend for this interaction to be hilarious.”

My alcoholic family dynamic is frequently really fun and funny. Levity is something that can break tension well, just remember to not punch down. Punching down creates separation.

4. Listen to a pep talk. This one from Abraham Hicks really spoke to me about dealing with difficult people.

5. Be a thermostat not a thermometer. Everywhere you go always bring the weather with you! Set yourself up for success! Don’t roll into a hard gathering on empty! Fill your cup ahead of time!

I would for sure have hit all of the marks of my solid morning routine, I would have already walked in the woods, I would have listened to something supportive before I attend the hard holiday gathering!

Preparation causes separation. Get to know yourself well enough to know what fills your cup. Most folks are out here letting the negative world tear them down and people who corrode their confidence be one of their top five influences. In my opinion that’s a gross and optional lifestyle!

6. Work on some art or play a game! Art is a doorway to other dimensions and consciousness. When I’m around stressful people if I have some coloring to focus on, a puzzle (gosh I love a puzzle) or something to do with my hands and brain like playing cards it can be so much easier to focus on the NOW moment instead of stressing about potential bombs coming from whatever cousin John might say after his third whiskey.

7. Have boundaries around what substances are consumed around you. Also I want to mention how different wine drunk, beer drunk and whiskey drunk are.

If you were raised around alcoholism or other abusive environments, our nervous system is really aware of the type of alcohol or drugs being consumed because it could literally mean the difference in your physical safety. I have sometimes immediately peaced out of a gathering when I saw some kind of substance that is a warning sign to me.

After years of being a nightlife producer and spending the same money for the first hour of the party no one attends cuz people roll in late to be cool or not socially awkward, as the later hours of the party with tons of people there, I have embraced how wonderful it is to show up right on time. And when you show up right on time you have the most sobriety to experience and can be ready to leave when things get dicey.

8. Actually having hard conversations. Consider that people are excited to talk to you about [insert polarizing topic of the moment!] because you are the most radical person they know. This is why it is always so important to speak your truth and speak truth to pseudo power even when it feels we are shouting into the void–we are always the most radical person someone knows and they need to be exposed to new ideas.

This year’s hot button issue is clearly the US funded war against Palestine and here’s a great hard conversation guide from Jewish Voice for Peace! (It’s got great tips for any kind of hard conversation!)

There’s a boycott against McDonald’s, Starbucks and Disney! Please consider deleting those apps and not supporting those companies during this time!

I am a former attorney and I DO NOT like to argue for sport. Truly, miss me with debates for fun. (Some people think fighting or debating is a love language and that is not for me!)

When you listen to my podcasts you’ll hear how I manage disagreement, which is to harmonize, agree to disagree or simply move on.

Mostly, though, I’m able to find something we agree on. The most confident person in the conversation usually leads the conversation and I can become the leader if I need to in order to harmonize.

I have been intentionally working on my self confidence for more than two decades. Most folks hang out with people and consume media that erodes their confidence.

I also have been reducing my hubris and increasing my humility intentionally for more than a decade. Hubris creates barriers to intimacy and I’m here to perfect my loving of other people. Even if I don’t like them. Most people get super into their ego because they are afraid to be perceived as anything but perfect. Relatable, but toxic.

Getting curious with compassion is a great method for being a loving human and especially difficult or mean people. Sometimes when people are being mean, asking compassionate curious questions calls them out enough to get them to stop. Also when folks get triggered and loud they are usually acting the age of their early childhood trauma and that is a fascinating thing to notice. I have always restrained from asking “Who hurt you when you were five because that’s how old you’re acting?” but one day I’ll bust that one out.

Your attitude matters! Psychologist William James says “Whenever you’re in conflict with someone there’s one factor that makes the difference between damaging the relationship and deepening it. The factor is attitude! If your attitude is positive and you are willing to give them the benefit of the doubt, then your mindset is to help the person you give yourself the best odds for a positive resolution.”

Harmony is created with two or more voices singing at a frequency that is different but complimentary. When cousin John is rolling in with his mean frequency I will harmonize higher and higher.

But depending on how much cousin John has had to drink and how loud he gets, I might bail! At a certain point I find harmonizing not worth my time. I also don’t answer the phone from my alcoholic relatives after 4PM.

People are afraid of hard conversations because they are afraid of how they are going to feel and being disliked. You’re going to need to get clear about whose opinion matters to you. I do not give a flip about what cousin John thinks about me.

People long to be listened to. And sometimes listening is an act of love. One of my favorite communication teachers tells a story about meeting a dentist and asking questions and finding out he raises rabbits. And boy howdy is he passionate about those rabbits! Find people’s rabbits! Whatever they are passionate about, lights them up! You can change a conversation from the hard thing to the rabbits and let them run.

Unfortunately some people are passionate about being contrary haters! They listen to so much Fox News they think it’s socially acceptable to say racist, homophobic, sexist, classist, etc things.

I might try to find their rabbits around the other shitty things they say, but more likely for me I will limit my time with them. Go to another room (I stay hydrated so I use the restroom a lot), loudly talk over them (if they are being rude with what they say, I will occasionally overtalk them–I never said my methods were entirely without malice), or leave! Sorry cousin John if you can’t get it together to be kind to your relatives you’re probably not gonna get to keep hanging out with your relatives.

9. Shitty people game. If you can’t avoid cousin John, you might make a game out of catching the shitty things he says and have bingo cards or points.

I went to holidays with a sweetheart whose verbally abusive mom was prone to saying shitty things to everyone and there was a scorecard going among the siblings and their plus ones.

I maintain that my presence (and your presence! unless you’re mean) is a gift! And isn’t anything anyone is entitled to for any specific period of time.

10. Don’t play their victim. Sometimes they try to convince you that you’re fighting with them. They might lie about you raising your voice or call you abusive or use lots of twisty ways of trying to manipulate.

Usually in this circumstance you’re dealing with someone who perceives themselves as a victim. People who perceive themselves as a victim need another person in order to be a victim and they have all kinds of unconscious dumb games to play.

You don’t have to entertain that. Some options: “I love you, I am here for you, but I cannot engage with you when [insert boundary] let me know when you’re ready to engage in a calm way.” They’ll get bored with you and go find someone else to make them a victim.

“I hear that you’re not ready to hear the information I have to share. I’ll wait til you’re ready to connect.” And then leave the convo or the gathering.

“I don’t feel like you love me.” “Well, then what makes you feel loved?” Get curious but don’t get on a guilt train with someone. No one can make me feel guilty, I can do that all on my own with my own moral integrity and compass. I work hard to keep my side of the street clean but I’m not hurt by someone else’s expectations I didn’t consent to.

Your peace is so expensive!! Be willing to be awkward in order to preserve your peace! I love you! Take breaks, go outside, shake your body out and make sure to fill up more of your time with people who make you feel loved, worthy and wonderful.


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