Watching the trunk show come together I had no idea how it would manifest, but seeing the designers unload together and the looks on our customers' faces has been priceless. We've taken some photos today and hope you enjoy this mini photo essay. If you're in New York City this weekend, please make it out to Brooklyn to support the designers! Even if the cold cruel world of fashion doesn't care about us, we can care about each other and maybe they'll catch up and get wise.
I've never done a giveaway on my blog before, but I have the rare opportunity to share with you some one-of-a-kind plus size art! Even if the cold cruel world of fashion doesn't care about us, we can care about…
I have seen you around before. I have a question, my ex is high femme, but other than that they are hard to find, where do i look for them? okcupid certainly does not seem to know. ;-)
Dear [Name withheld]:
I totally hear you. On my end it's hard to find dapper butches, genderqueers and FTMs who are even into high femmes on these online personal sites. Like, first and foremost, how hard is it to have a queer gender clickie box? Like, M, F or Fabulous?
At least night's Femme Book Club my question was "What was the highlight of your summer." Mine was three fold. NYC Pride Weekend with the Femme Family. The Femmes of Power Book Launch with the Femme Mafia in Atlanta. And Michfest. Interestingly, in the past two days I have discovered videos published that feature my first two highlights!
It's no secret that my friends call me the Queer Oprah (and my career goal is to have a talk show). In that vein I thought about the ways I could have a Femme Book Club and use my media outlets to bring it worldwide and get other Femmes & allies reading and talking!
Here's how it will work--FBC has its nexus in Femme Family NYC. We're an open and inclusive Femme organization based in New York. We're reading one book a month, selected by a member who wants to lead a discussion. If you're in NYC you should join us. If you're far away or can't, I'll post the discussion questions here at QueerFatFemme.com. If you have a blog, write them up on your blog and I'll post a link on the entry. If you don't, just respond in the comments section.*
Codefriendant: If you meet any of the following criteria, you might be codefriendant. 1. You text every morning when you wake-up? 2. You rarely do anything on your own if you have the option of your friend being there? 3. You are so close that everyone you meet thinks you're a couple? 4. You fight like you're in a relationship? 5. You had sex a few times and it made you feel really complicated? 6. They had sex with someone else and it made you feel really complicated? 7. You have bad boundaries?
In 20 years I haven't changed a thing about my approach to buying
nearly everything second hand, making it my own, reinventing what
personal style means. I have dedicated myself to fashion without ever
looking to magazines or books for help. I have dedicated my body to be
a canvass, a color palette, a target for material. I am a slave to a
"perfect" dress, a perfect pink shell top, a kitschy vintage pin, a
large and gorgeous clutch, a hot pair of heels, an accordion skirt in
an interesting color.
When I get enraged about stuff, especially frustrations with dating and the like, I take my rage and channel it into productive things. Usually my community building work, my writing or performance. I got the greatest email this morning from my friend Jessie Dress.
Joe LeBlanc, the Conference Chair and founder of the Butch Voices Conference August 20-23, 2009, told me about the conference almost a year ago and I loved the idea. Watching it develop since October has been really incredible. What began as the germ of an idea has become something really big and amazing. If you can road trip or take a last-minute change of plans and go to this conference you absolutely MUST. The Femme Conference changed my life--I can only imagine how incredible Butch Voices will be.
"Thinking big, as a queer, as a woman, as a femme, as a fat person, as a disabled person, as any kind of marginalized identity, is a radical act."--Bevin Branlandingham
Host Bevin Branlandingham asks queer entrepreneurs and artists about their big dreams and big plans!