Hey Brooklyn! August 11th Rebel Cupcake Sad Songs Say So Much!

I really love sad songs. It's fun and indulgent to listen to a tragic torch song. I'm a super glass half-full Pollyanna optimist, but I do acknowledge that sometimes queers get so caught up in the "We have to show how happy we are all the time" act and sometimes it's just plain hard to live a marginalized identity. It's really lonely sometimes. Especially for those of us who maybe don't have families around the holidays or who date emotionally absent folks.

With this in mind I curated a sad songs Rebel Cupcake. I'm not afraid to go there at a dance party cabaret. I tapped my pal Kit Yan, amazing slam poet, who is about to give up his crown to the successor Mr. Transman on August 28th at Murray Hill's pageant. Kit knows how to write a heartbreaker of a poem. He's also doing a kickstarter pre-sale of his new album, check him out and support queer art!

The infamous Taylor Black is a really talented singer and guitar player and knows the plight of the tragic homosexual.

And to top it all off, Miss Mary Wanna returns with a sad burlesque number. I just told her "Work it out onstage, girl." I can't wait to see what she comes up with!

After the show we'll dance to songs about heartbreak!

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Additions to the Queer Lexicography: Dry Spell Edition

I have the following updates to the Queer Lexicography to present unto you.

The first, courtesy of Zuleikha Mahmood, co-founder of the Femme Sharks.

Critically underbanged. It's a great alternative to the term "dry spell" but can also be used to describe Lesbian Bed Death and any really unsatisfying sex. She used it in a craig's list ad of all places, to request that someone help her protest her state of being. It worked, too, she totally found her recent boo from it and is now contentedly well-banged.

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