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Additions to the Queer Lexicography: Ages and Dating and PR

September 18th, 2009 · 1 Comment

A Tiny is someone who is in their barely twenties.* Tinies can be great. They are someone you can be really tender with because of their stark vulnerability in contrast to your older jadedness. They can be really fun to corrupt. They can also help you not take things so seriously. Tinies sometimes have more active sex drives. They can make you feel really old when they don’t understand your Jem and the Holograms references.

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Additions to the Queer Lexicography: Polyamory Edition

July 16th, 2009 · No Comments

Side Dish: An apt way to describe a special lover who is not your main lover or partner. As further explicated by Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha when I threw the term around her the other day: “You can enjoy a meaty entrée on its own, but how much better is it with a delicious side of greens or okra? Giving you vitamins and tastes that you just don’t get with the main dish. Making both taste more delightful in the mouth. How lovely.”

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FemmeCast Episode 8: That’s My Jam!!

April 1st, 2009 · 1 Comment

“We’re fierce but not nuts, we’re the Sharks!”–Leah, Epsiode 8 of FemmeCast

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Brian says this man was sent to me by Jesus

January 10th, 2009 · 2 Comments

“Oh Luis, if I weren’t a lesbian I’d have such a crush on you.” He then told me about his daughter who is a lesbian. She’s in her mid-twenties and he said, “I just love her so much but I feel like I failed as a father.”

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Correspondence: Greeneyes

December 15th, 2008 · 4 Comments

VIA MYSPACE
—————– Original Message —————–
From: greeneyes
Date: Dec 14, 2008 10:41 PM
Subject: Please read!
Will pay women stand on me at once at crush me under their weight like a roach..
Dear Greeneyes:
When I was a Senior in college I took a Human Sexuality class and the professor said something I paraphrase below that has really stuck [...]

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