August Party Agenda

Hello Brooklynites, New York Citians and other folks who might be in and around Brooklyn and wanting to hang out with the nicest, funnest, awesomest body positive crowd in New York City queer nightlife!

Yes Ma'am has two amazing parties this month we're stoked to share with you!

Yes Ma'am's WHAM BAM, our afternoon party (goes from 4pm-10pm) is so much fun! It's like the Noxema Commercial you never realized you were dreaming of until it came true. DJ Average Jo plays an ecclectic mix of oldies, reggae, motown, 90s hip hop, and Hall & Oates. There are beer specials and a burger special at the upcoming WHAM BAM on August 18th! All of the info is on our Facebook page.

Yes Ma'am's flagship party is happening at the mansion in Bed Stuy on August 24th! Saturday night, great dance jams and really hot people. The mansion is air conditioned but we're also bringing in tons of box fans to add to the windswept Dirty Dancing dance party vibe (it's very "I carried a watermelon" and I might get Jacqueline to mix up a fresh watermelon punch situation in that spirit but I haven't talked to her or Jo or Nicky about it so this is between us, readers). All the info is on our Facebook invite!

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Bringing Woo to Nightlife: Group Solstice Ritual

Rebel Cupcake is certainly one of my sacred places. One of the best compliments I've gotten about it is that the person felt like this was the place they felt they could most be themselves in queer nightlife. The December 20, 2012 show being the night before the Winter Solstice I wanted to make it extra special. I put together six acts--four more than I usually book--at the intersections of the theme of Muppets, the end of the world (as we know it) and the darkness transforming to light that the solstice represents. I also adapted a group solstice ritual for use on the stage. The following is what happened.

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Hey Brooklyn! August 11th Rebel Cupcake Sad Songs Say So Much!

I really love sad songs. It's fun and indulgent to listen to a tragic torch song. I'm a super glass half-full Pollyanna optimist, but I do acknowledge that sometimes queers get so caught up in the "We have to show how happy we are all the time" act and sometimes it's just plain hard to live a marginalized identity. It's really lonely sometimes. Especially for those of us who maybe don't have families around the holidays or who date emotionally absent folks.

With this in mind I curated a sad songs Rebel Cupcake. I'm not afraid to go there at a dance party cabaret. I tapped my pal Kit Yan, amazing slam poet, who is about to give up his crown to the successor Mr. Transman on August 28th at Murray Hill's pageant. Kit knows how to write a heartbreaker of a poem. He's also doing a kickstarter pre-sale of his new album, check him out and support queer art!

The infamous Taylor Black is a really talented singer and guitar player and knows the plight of the tragic homosexual.

And to top it all off, Miss Mary Wanna returns with a sad burlesque number. I just told her "Work it out onstage, girl." I can't wait to see what she comes up with!

After the show we'll dance to songs about heartbreak!

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