Queer Family Holiday Rebel Cupcake Saturday December 7th

This is the fifth annual party I've thrown in NYC to celebrate queer families around the holiday season. In 2009 I did a Queer Family Holiday Party (part of the series of shows I produced in advance of getting my first monthly party, Rebel Cupcake). In 2010-2012 I did the monthly Rebel Cupcake in December. Now that Rebel Cupcake is no longer monthly I still wanted to have that holiday coming together spirit. This is an intentional event I do every year to cultivate and celebrate queer families of choice.

I'm very stoked to do things a little different this year--instead of a show I'm having INSTALLATIONS! Each installation artist is curating a specific holiday hybrid with BDSM. I was inspired by a leather family event I went to this summer that had a family photo booth. Why not do it in the holiday way?

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Bevin Brandlandingham Guest Starring in the Lesbian Love Octagon on June 19th

Set in the late 90s on the Lower East Side of New York City, LESBIAN LOVE OCTAGON follows the journey of Sue, a less than butch dyke with a broken heart, as she tries to cope with losing her girlfriend to her ex-girlfriend. When Sue’s friends (a bevy of ex-girlfriends and ex-girlfriends' ex-girlfriends) come rushing to her aid, they incite a tempest of lust and betrayal as they try to convince Sue that the answer to happiness exists in polyamory, pomade, and online personals. A riotous look at a righteous time in lesbian history, LESBIAN LOVE OCTAGON is a musical for anyone who has ever loved wimmin's bookstores, tofu or cats.

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Cupcake Cabaret, a Performance Celebrating Self Love at Stonewall, 7PM on Thursday, April 18th

My mission in life is to make the world safe for people to love themselves. One of the ongoing projects I keep is very dear to my heart, which is a performance art series celebrating the radical act of self love. It is definitely very radical to love yourself in a society that tells you that you aren't worthy of any love or appreciation, or conditional love and appreciation (like, if you lose 20 pounds, etc...). One of the things I love most is to hear how artists have used their differences to become empowered. That's what I curate in this series.

I'm super excited to have Ivan Coyote, the dreamy professional storyteller, author and multi-award winning bad ass, in NYC from Canada and featured performer at the upcoming Cupcake Cabaret.

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Brooklyn! Two Great Parties This Month AND An Incredible New Year’s Eve Bash!

The first Yes Ma'am was a wild success! It was so fun. The chatio was filled with folks meeting and mingling, the dance floor was popping. At the end of the night everyone started chanting "One more song! One more song!" DJ Average Jo was on FIRE. The bar sold a steady stream of the Yes Ma'am punch and I am experimenting with some new concoctions for next month to try to ease the hangover. I'm 33, these things matter to me. We had the New York Toy Collective tabling and this woman who was cleaning up from the event before Yes Ma'am said to me, "So, really, what kind of party is this exactly?" I assured her it was a dance party and for queers sex toy tables are really no big deal and not neccessarily indicative of some kind of orgy happening at any second. I mean, sure, sometimes but not always.

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Brooklyn Queer Dance Party Rebel Cupcake Halloween Extravaganza!

I really enjoy getting to celebrate Halloween every day. I'm never shy to wear a costume. But, in New York City Halloween gets a little overwhelming for me. Often I don't go out at all on Halloween. Each year since 2009 I've produced an early Halloween party--a chance for folks to trot out their costumes in a cheerful environment and not get crushed by drunk people on the subway.

This year I wanted to do a 50s diner halloween party theme and I was inspired to incorporate my favorite fictional 50s diner--the Peach Pit, the 90210 gang's favorite hang out. Thursday, October 18th it all goes down at Sugarland!

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United in Anger: A History of ACT UP at a Theater Near You!

I also enjoyed that it addressed what it was like to be in the movement. I think it's nice to know what folks did but it's great to hear the dirt. There was a lot of personal impetus to be part of the movement--everyone's friends were dying. And also, I liked that folks were honest about how they didn't go cruising in bars, they joined this activist movement so they could cruise and also do something important with their time. I don't know, it was an important thread of realness that definitely made this documentary feel like a homegrown history rather than a documentary from an outsiders' perspective.

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Video Post: Lesbolesque!

Darlings, if one were to name this period in my artist's incubation (and I do feel as though this gorgeous queer Brooklyn artist community I live in is an incubator of sorts), I think this is the "Throw some glitter, make it rain" period. Thanks Ke$ha for that choice lyric. Also why are Ke$ha's songs so embarrassing? I feel a secret shame for enjoying them.

A couple of weeks ago, in the span of two days, I performed two acts that incorporated glitter rain. They were quite spectacular, actually. Glitter rain really does add that certain something that just reading a piece to an audience or just taking off your clothes to classic lesbian hits misses.

Anyway, I've been talking about my Lesbolesque act here on the blog for the last year or so, I thought I would get up a video of it. This is from the anniversary Rebel Cupcake party.

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My Intention Behind Art & Soul

I went to visit the space and it seemed like a great spot. It's well-lit like a coffee shop and there is cool art on the wall. The exhibit will change every month. The bar itself has a really cozy vibe and the gallery has couches, chairs, tables with flexible arrangements which makes it perfect as an event space. The bar serves beer, wine and has a menu of nice food. I immediately thought, "This is the kind of place I want to hang out with my friends."

Rebel Cupcake has been wonderful and I am going to keep putting it on, but it is still very nightclub and harder to meet new people unless you're comfortable doing the bar scene meeting new people thing. Art and Soul is definitely going to have a different vibe. I'm hoping late 90s inclusive feminist bookstore coffee shop.

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