New Episode Of The Lesbian Tea Basket: Adagio Tea Haul

New Episode of the Lesbian Tea Basket: Adagio Tea Haul

I had watched a few you tube videos about video bloggers doing "Hauls" about how they bought a bunch of stuff at a vintage store or make-up or whatever. I did the same thing with something I know a lot about buying. Tea.

So far, I love Adagio. The teas can be purchased in sample sizes (10 cups or so for cheap), bigger pouches and even in tea bags in case you don't want to hassle with loose tea.

To get $5 off your first order at Adagio, use this coupon code: 3189993374

Full disclosure, I get points towards free tea if you use it. Win-win. Sip sip.

Here's the episode with my haul, some brief yays and skips about the teas I've tried, and below the video are a bunch of links to the teas I talked about that I would recommend (and a couple I didn't have time to talk about).

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A Self-Love Moment

At the Femme Family meeting on Tuesday, in the middle of a terrible heat wave hitting NYC, our go-around topic was "Describe your inner body temperature." Mine was the rage of a Disney villain. A fat one. (In the words of Dave End*, "Never fuck with a witch who puts on lipstick with a shrimp.") I get heat sick pretty easily and almost fainted during yoga on Monday, so by day 3 of the heat storm I was so grumpy. So grumpy that I barely put on clothes. I picked out the thing that felt the least like wearing clothes that I could.
How can a meeting with such empowering Femmes not raise my spirits? On my way home I realized how grateful I was to have done so much work over the last 11 years to unlearn the body shame that would have, otherwise, kept me hot and miserable and covered up in layers upon layers of clothes trying to hide my body. Feeling good about my body and sexuality is so much more comfortable, both literally and figuratively.

So this goes out to all of the amazing people in my life, who taught me early on the joy and value of loving yourself and moving in your body in ways that make you feel good.

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Femme Book Club!!

It's no secret that my friends call me the Queer Oprah (and my career goal is to have a talk show). In that vein I thought about the ways I could have a Femme Book Club and use my media outlets to bring it worldwide and get other Femmes & allies reading and talking!

Here's how it will work--FBC has its nexus in Femme Family NYC. We're an open and inclusive Femme organization based in New York. We're reading one book a month, selected by a member who wants to lead a discussion. If you're in NYC you should join us. If you're far away or can't, I'll post the discussion questions here at QueerFatFemme.com. If you have a blog, write them up on your blog and I'll post a link on the entry. If you don't, just respond in the comments section.*

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