Five Ways I’ve Learned to Embrace the Velocity of Change

I've noticed my friends going through a ton of big changes lately. Huge new jobs—dream jobs. Sudden moves. Losses of many kinds. A lot of them have gotten into romances in the last few weeks–it reminds me so clearly of that time where I thought I was going to lose my friend. I'm still having to remind myself often that I've weathered these kinds of friendship changes before and it is going to be okay.

I'm positive all of these big changes aren't just isolated to my friends. Since this is probably relevant to my readers, too, I thought I would do a round-up of some of the things I've learned along the way about embracing the velocity of change.

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Mind Diet: Ways I’m Tuning my Radio Dial to Joy

I told Shaina about the three events and she said, "You're doing great! These things are just telling you you're on the right path! What you need to do is change your radio frequency to joy and this stuff won't affect you so hard."

She explained that we vibrate on different frequencies. It's very similar to how thoughts control your life (see Louise Hay's You Can Heal Your Life for a great primer on the law of attraction). If you're on a dial where you think everything is against you, shift it up a few notches and vibrate on joy. Focus on happiness, silliness, playfulness, creativity.

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Blue Bottle Ritual With Spunky: Letting Go of the Old and Womanifesting the New

Part of being camp counselors is participating in a lot of non-consensual woo. I totally didn't identify it as woo at the time (and balked at all forms of religion and spirituality), but having been a lifelong Girl Scout, I really knew how to plan rituals and ceremonies chock full of meaning for our girls.

Spunky and I used our current spirituality and past Girl Scout training to design a ritual recently that I thought might help some of my blog readers who are interested in getting energy unstuck.

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Astrology Q & A with Katie Sweetman of Empowering Astrology

After I posted about my astrological chart reading with Katie Sweetman of Empowering Astrology, I received a really interesting comment* to my blog that I thought made a really great follow-up post about "the whole astrology thing." Also, Katie's comments are a bit more of a background to what a natal chart is and why it matters. Hopefully Katie's words will help folks understand a little more about what Astrology is and what it can do.

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My Reading with Empowering Astrology

Last week I had my astrological chart read by Katie, the bombshell behind Empowering Astrology. I had met her once before years ago and upon one glance at my chart she knew that the previous few months (because of Pluto sailing through my chart) had been "like a nuclear bomb went off" in my life. She had no way of knowing but I had lost a job of five years and my apartment became uninhabitable in that span of time. That little nugget stayed with me and I had always wanted to come back for a full chart reading.

Your astrological chart is basically a map of the stars as they existed at the exact time and location that you were born. When people say "I'm a Capricorn with a Virgo rising and my Moon is in Scorpio," what they mean to describe are aspects of their personality as dictated by the positions of certain celestial bodies when they entered this world. Lesbians and woo-oriented queers use astrology as code with one another all the time, so it's helpful to know those basics. You can get a free chart at astro.com if you know your birth time and location.

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